Yes, another family blog, but Family Pulse is different and I’ll explain why in a moment. I’m Ryan and I’m the father of four young children who will be used in various wild experiments to produce content for this blog! Do not be concerned, they have all signed a Waiver of Liability form.
Mixture of Seriousness and Humour
Everyone has struggled to get a letter, essay or blog post started. The first 2-3 sentences either grab someone’s attention or turn them away. I think the key for a blog about family life and raising children simply has, to begin with, humour…obviously! Don’t worry, any wild experiments we do will not involve anything that is alive.
The point I want to make is that we have all day to be serious and too many serious occasions will be decided by our children, not us! Even the most skilled parents will never have 100% control over when, where, how, who and why a very serious situation happens. So let’s take opportunities to have a laugh while giving others the benefit of the doubt and accepting we’re all different.
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Family Pulse is Different
Family Pulse (FP) is different because the stay-at-home parent (me) is also a Web Developer (Freelancer). So I sometimes work from home, you could call Family Pulse part of my work, it just doesn’t pay but that’s fine. My real job is changing nappies (thanks to YouTube exposure my two eldest are calling them diapers) and pushing a tandem buggy up hills.
Being a Web Developer with experience in social network technology (trying to avoid jargon) and various other cool online tricks (doing better). I can ensure FP grows and with enough success, we can compete with some of the biggest sites out there. Popular blogs have to pay large amounts of money to developers for upgrades but FP has me.
Having an experienced developer as part of the team means we might be able to put more money into a lot of fun stuff like giveaways, charities, the production of fun videos and maybe even some basic educational apps. It’s a dream, it’s a maybe, but it’s also a reason for FP to exist and it gives us all a purpose to thrive.
Let’s not forget, I’m also a parent, the stay-at-home parent for seven years and FP is not part of my professional ambition. It’s something I’ll enjoy doing with my spare time and so everything I publish will be genuine.
The Starting Family
I almost went with “Founding Family” but that would just be wrong! I would like to introduce my own family as the first (starting) family, the family unit who will help to get Family Pulse (FP) going. I should add that it’s all voluntary…even the baby nods her head in agreement to her Daddy’s fantastic ideas. My family is still very young and that is why I want to make FP happen now, while I’m still in the thick of it and everything is fresh in my mind.
Now for the introduction, which is going to be short because I feel putting too much information on one page is risky. Little bits of information coming out through many discussions over the years is fine. Sooner or later all the little facts will come out because us parents can shut-up about our kids right?!
- My partner (Zara) and I have four children.
- Our children are currently aged 7 months to seven years.
- We live in Scotland where I was born.
- Zara is from London (I call it a country).
- Zara works 12-hour shifts as a care worker for the elderly.
- We don’t do childcare or private nurseries ever.
- I do 99% of the cooking, Zara does 99% of the cleaning, we’re a team.
- Our 1st child (Summer) is in Primary 3 and already practices GCSE level maths at home. We’re obviously very proud and so to reward her I bought her Minecraft. Big mistake!
- Our 2nd child (Keira) has tested us to our limits but her desire to be in control comes from being a competent child who puts clothes away in all the right places, something her Dad struggles to do!
- Our 3rd child (Grayson) is a very happy boy. His little tantrums are just a part of his communication. Unfortunately, despite being two he says very little and some other behavior leads us to suspect autism. Even if he isn’t autistic, his behavior is challenging in very different ways from our strong willed Keira.
- Our 4th child (Kitsy) is our final. This baby is something different again. She maintains eye contact in a promising way. I call her “Bubbles” because she blows so many bubbles a foam runs down her chin.
Well, I think that is all for now. We all need to take watch how much information we reveal all at once, on a single page. I also consider the privacy rights of my children.
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